Skip to content

Choice

October 22, 2010
tags:

It is so hard to make a choice. From the mundane to the heaviest, every choice morphs into a new form of torment.

What to trust. Who to be.
Where to go. When to flee.

Which perspective to hold,
What book to read,
When to accept what is told,
How to share deepest need.

Which...
city
country
school
job
community
What to do.
What to be.

How to spend a day
Which words to say

yes no here there me you right wrong lost found
empty full up down centered awry create destroy
joy pain hope despair night dawn save damn
in out back forth leave stay good bad come go

Shifting thoughts
eluding the grasp
taunting then begging
to be named and given rest

What to do in the time we are within

How to be

The eternal question remains: how to choose.

Each option yields its own stream of possibilities and to choose for one seems to be to choose against the others. Within each stream, there is much that is necessary, though different and mutually exclusive; having to lose what could be induces fear and deep insatiable grief. But something will have to be lost, I think, because that is actually the only way that something can ever be gained.

Even not choosing itself is a choice. There is no escape.

To sit in the totality of  indecision is to be paralyzed in the chaos, to be locked within the torment of hell– and the only way out

is to choose to leave.

Advertisement
No comments yet

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s

Follow

Get every new post delivered to your Inbox.